ok, so my bf and i get into and a semi fight yesterday, well today he was actually agreeing with me, he said that he puts up a wall because he doesn't want to be hurt again and he said i know it hurts you that i put up that wall, and he said that when he's angry he blacks out and says stuff he doesn't mean and he said he doesn't want to hurt me, but after he told me he was gonna go take a nap i saw a bulletin on myspace from him that says screw me,screw u, but i think someone got into his myspace because this is not like him. but what the heck?
Ok, what the heck????
I don't know how old you are, but it sounds pretty young. How many times do you argue like this? Every relationship has to have it's arguments, but it has to be done fairly. One person cannot dominate the fight. And that is what he did. And because of his own insecurities. But he came back and apologized for saying things he didn't mean. That's good. Now you need to start keeping track of how often that happens. If it starts to happen all the time, then maybe you should consider leaving the relationship. This constitutes as verbal abuse. Know one should live with that. Forget about what you seen on myspace.com. I am sure he will erase those comments. But I would advise you never to get on his myspace again. He needs to learn to trust you and by checking his personal info won't help. What exactly were you looking for and were you really prepared to find out? Don't open a can of worms that isn't necessary. Tell your boyfriend he needs to get his emotions in check the next time you have a fight because you won't stand for that kind of abuse. Just make sure you don't get into the habit of always hanging that over his head. Good Luck !!
Ok, what the heck????
who cares let it go...this is so juvenile...grow up
Ok, what the heck????
Are you the brains of the two? What was the question?
Ok, what the heck????
Whoa! Save some stuff for your therapist honey
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